A rational list of policies that the nicest places in the world are working towards


Japan, Australia, Scandinavia, France, UK, Canada and many other countries are embracing a wide range of cultural new normals for the 21st century. Some will work, some will miss, but they are aspiring to be the best they can be.

Here are some of the beautiful ideas that they are moving towards, that I find to be wonderful aspirations.

Pro safe sex and sex education.

Pro abortion – it’s the absolute choice of the mother who can choose to listen or ignore anyone as they decide.


Pro contraception for health and economic equality.

Anti-gun and anti-bullets – keep weapons out of the hands of criminals and crazies absolutely.

Anti-organized-religion – feel free to worship anything or everything, but keep it private.

Pro union rights as and when workers choose – individuals or groups have the absolute right to negotiate as and when they see fit.

Pro regulation to ensure a level playing field – healthy capitalism demands rules

Pro legalize drugs to destroy organized crime – tax and control.


Pro gay rights because everyone has the same rights – let everyone live the life they need and want to live – happiness doesn’t have a single definition.

Anti racism in all it’s guises – we’re all designed to find people unlike ourselves scary, deal with it.

Pro freedom for all – freedom to enjoy life without hurting others.

Pro fiscal-conservatism – balanced budgets lead to long term security and national growth.

Anti social-conservatism – no one has the right one answer.

Pro society – everyone gets the same rights.

Pro rehabilitation as opposed to punishment.

Respect for the rule of law and the people who enforce those laws.


Nothing is true – Proof!

Many people argue that you cannot disprove the existence of god.

While this is a revolving argument on the surface, actually this is a very simple practical way out of it.

Every god related story can be shown to be fiction, when tested against other god related stories. There are no facts that prove the existence of god. But lack of proof of existence is not the same as proof of non-existence.

There are an infinite number of possibilities of which I can only prove a finite number.

So the chance of anything being true is a finite number divided by infinity, and anything divided by infinity is as close to zero at it’s possible to be.

So given that nothing is actually true, then it’s absolutely certain that everything including god does not exist.

In your face nihlists.




An honest discussion between theologians and scientists

The bible says that god makes the sun rise and fall. But I know the rotation of the earth is the mechanism that we interpret as movement of the sun.

The bible talks about god making clouds, but I know that clouds are the result of evaporation of water rising into the atmosphere.

The bible says god makes rainbows, but I know that it’s the effect of light passing through water droplets that separates the colors based on the refractive effect of different frequencies of light.

Tides, bible says god, evidence shows gravitational pull of sun and moon.


Stars, bible says god, evidence shows nuclear fusion reactions in large balls of matter that we call stars.

The bible says that everything that is unknown at the time of its writing by men is down to god.

Theologians when presented with the evidence of science will always say that while the mechanism can be understood, god created the underlying rules of the universe. So it’s all down to god.

I’m actually okay with that thinking, as it allows theologians to support further investigation into the deepest levels of understanding. And maybe one day we will see the fundamental rules of the universe, and maybe when we get to see and understand those, there will be a lot of very happy theologians who can say “see I told you so”


When I was a child I read the bible, and loved it.

As an adult I read the bible and loved it.

Didn’t for a second believe the stories in it, but loved it.

I Didn’t think it was true, I thought it was symbolical, but loved it.

I loved the ideas, I didn’t agree with all of them, actually, every single story made me think, and many I found problematic. But I loved it.

I don’t follow the bible. But I learnt a huge amount from the experience of reading it. Much of what I learnt, taught me to question all religion. And maybe that is the point of the bible.

There is no book in existence that shares so many ideas.

It’s the one book everyone should read. And in reading it, make up their own minds as to what a morale code should be, and maybe it will influence how they live their lives.

Some will find God, some will find a morale code, but everyone will find a lot about the history of mankind.

You don’t need to read the bible to have a morale code, and you don’t need to read the bible to accept or dispel the idea of God. But it will influence your opinion.

There is nothing as powerful as knowledge.


What is your favorite type of extremism?

I consider myself a moderate, but others may see me as an extreme moderate.

I personally find all forms of extremism abhorrent.

Religious extremists (who come in a multitude of varieties) are all dangerous. Those who believe that the word written in any book is the perfect word of their deity, have to ignore all evidence of contradiction as well as the thinking of their own religions historical record of the creation and modification of their books. Blindly following any leader with an archaic costume is always dangerous.

That is not to say that the meditative qualities of group introversion and chanting are all bad. Many people use the concepts taught through their religions as a way of living their lives within a morale code and they enjoy the power of ceremony, cultural memory and ritual to great benefit.

But most of these people do not take the direction of their religious group leaders as absolute, and make personal decisions as to which things to follow and which to not follow. Most people will not cause harm to others just because their religious leaders demand it. Actually most religious leaders won’t even ask their followers to cause harm to others.

But there are a small number of religious leaders who do advocate causing harm to others. Every day we see some of these on the news, be it the leaders of some sects of Islam, leaders of certain mid-western churches, or Hasidic Jewish leaders in Israel who advocate throwing stones at people who drive on the Sabbath. Most of the people who listen to these outlying religious leaders choose not to do what they are being asked. But too many people don’t do enough to act against those who do choose to follow those aggressive points of view.

When a politician is unwilling to take a stand against a fundamentalist view they become part of the problem.

When a republican chooses to not say they accept the theory of evolution as a scientific principle they increase the issue.

When a politician is not willing to denounce an extremist left wing group who have used violence to further their goals they are part of the problem.

When people in a pub playing great music put a coin in the bucket collecting money for those who use violence, they are part of the problem.

The power of billions of people who try to live a moderate life can be countered by just a few who wish to live a extreme violent form of a fundamentalist life, if those billions chose not to stop them.

Actively denouncing extremism in all its forms is a fundamental requirement for the world to be a better place. Does that view sound too extreme?


Is Marriage a Homonym?

There are many words that have multiple meanings.

I picked up the leaves vs. I hate it when he leaves the seat up.

He rose from his seat vs she was very pleased with the rose he gave her.

They got engaged vs she was very engaged in the conversation.

Words with different meanings are technically called homonyms.

And I think that the fact that the word marriage is used for two very different meanings should also be addressed in the same context.

Religions (all of them) recognize the importance of marriage, as a gate two people take in confirming their relationship to their congregation and to their faith (god, spirit or code). When a religion recognizes a marriage, it is saying that the participants have agreed to abide by the rules and edicts set down by the precepts of that religion.

So why is marriage a homonym?

Well it also turns out that there is a legal contract that can be undertaken between people that is recognized by law. This is very different than the religious term marriage, as it sets out a legal framework that people entering the contract have with each other. This framework extends to taxation, end of life decision-making, and legal confidentiality in cases of giving public witness as well as the disbursement of assets and responsibilities if the marriage were ever to be terminated either by a divorce or death.

Many of the terms of a legal marriage can be decided on between parties in other forms of legal contract, but not all of them. Some of the terms are unique to a legal marriage.

It is possible for people to enter into a legal marriage without entering into a religious marriage, as it is possible for people to enter into a religious marriage without entering into a legal marriage. They are separate forms of the same word.

I fully accept that any religious organization can choose to vilify, ignore or disown anyone or group of people they choose. I personally don’t subscribe to the idea that my religion or any religion is any truer than any other religion, and I prefer to not hate anyone based on any single aspect of his or her makeup (I base any hate I feel on a more complex mix of emotions, attitudes and actions).

If religions choose to limit their religious marriages to any specific sub-group, that is of course their prerogative. But that just proves that the word marriage is a homonym.

When people choose to legally bind themselves under the terms of a legal marriage that is an acceptance OF the legal aspects of society BY those people.

Under the law their can be no discrimination, while religions are free is discriminate as they see fit.

Legal marriage is a great thing for society, and religious marriage is a great thing for religions.

And that is why marriage must always have two meanings and been seen as a homonym.


Why the afterlife doesn’t matter.

It can be very comforting to think about an afterlife, a place where the people we have loved go when their life on this earth is over. A place where we will go when we die, and where we will meet all those we have loved. As a way of dealing with the terrible loss we all feel when those we care most deeply for are no longer with us, the idea of an afterlife can be very helpful.

And as a way of helping those in the despair of grief, this concept can be been seen to be helpful. And those who postulate these ideas do perform a very helpful function for most people at those times of sorrow.

And it can be very helpful to surround those moments with rituals, that can be focused on as a way of creating a shared meditation. We are social creatures and having others sharing in a complex and beautiful ritual alongside us does have a comforting effect.

But we have absolutely no evidence of an afterlife. And without evidence I cannot honestly use this idea, as it gives me no comfort. That is not to say I don’t want there to be an afterlife, I just see it as very unlikely, and so I need a different philosophy to bring me comfort.

The more I learn about the physics of the universe which we are all part of, the more I come to understand the strange nature of time. Time seems to be a dimension that may not truly exist, but is instead a mind-made concept. All of our understanding of the universe is grounded by a reference to time. The speed of light, movement of planets, acceleration, chemical reactions, quantum physics, electricity, the cycle of life all require observations to happen at different points.

Everything we do can be tracked chronologically. But as a dimension it is lacking in its ability to be bidirectional. Every now and again mathematically smart people work out a model that shows how (at miniscule levels) actions in the future can impact actions now or in the past. And the weirdness of the universe is exposed ever so slightly more.

Experimentally sub atomic properties (the spin of paired subatomic particles), have been shown to be linked in ways that defy the speed of light and therefore time.

These little teasers show the edge of a shadow that may one day expose a new way of thinking about everything.

And maybe these ideas will show us another level of the beauty of everything.

These ideas bring me immense comfort, and allow be to think fondly about the amazing nature of life, the universe and everything.

I don’t preclude the idea of an afterlife; I just see it as highly improbable, and not worth wasting my time alive worrying about.


The discomfort of ignorance

There is an old saying “Ignorance is bliss”. As I’ve learnt more about the world, the more I’ve come to realize that ignorance is the antipathy of bliss. The codification of ignorance as a way of dominating swathes of the world’s population has allowed virtually every terrible thing that has ever happened to take place.

I think there are levels of ignorance.

Level 1 – Your basic “lack of knowledge” type of ignorance.

Level 2 – As you move up the hierarchy you find what I like to call “emu ignorance”, where burying ones head in the sand can make a fact go away.

Level 3 – Then you move up to “abusive ignorance”, where you choose to not tell others facts that would save them from being hurt in some way.

Level 4 – And the pinnacle of ignorance, “controlling ignorance”. This is where people are forced to not learn new things as a way of keeping from improving their lives in ways that could lead to the current ruling class losing some or all of their power.

I can think of many examples of basic ignoramuses, emu ignoramuses, abusive ignoramuses and controlling ignoramuses.

There is an antidote to ignorance, and that is obviously knowledge and the skills to learn and teach.

Anyone who steals power by limiting education is evil.

And the ability to be evil is classless.



How many generations does it take to change?

My great grandparents and many of their brothers, sisters, cousins and others travelled from villages in Eastern Europe to England and America. They came with their culture and education, and while life was hard for them they worked hard, and made a life for themselves. I say made a life, but by todays standards it was not that great, they lived in rented tiny rooms with no indoor plumbing, but their children (my grandparents) were able to have a better life than they did, even going to school, and some of their children were able to go to university, and all of my generation was able to go to further education. My nieces and nephews will all have the chance to go to university.

Now imagine if things had been different. Imagine of my great grandparents or their parents or their parents didn’t get to bring their culture with them when they came to the western world. Imagine if they were brought over in chains, and were broken up as a family and forced to work on farms or in factories as slaves. Imagine if they were given new names, and had their history driven from them in very possible way. Imagine of their children were automatically going to be treated the same way? How many generations would it take to allow they decedents to get to the same place as my family?

We don’t need to imagine this of course, because that is exactly the scientific test that has taken place over the last several hundred years. When slavery was abolished, all of a sudden the ex-slaves didn’t get back their culture. Everyone else didn’t instantly forget his or her prejudices. And the ability of families to support and foster the welfare of their children didn’t instantly become better. It’s very hard work to bring up children teaching them the skills of live and these are skills that are passed from generation to generation.

I’m amazed at how hard it is for a family of color to compete in the US. The culture that has grown over the last couple of hundred years clearly has some excellent attributes. Despite the challenges many families are doing very well. But the deck is still very stacked. The statistics on people with a darker dye under their skin being stopped by the police, or jailed is stunning in the clarity it brings to the discussion. There may be some validity in the police acting this way, but it’s doesn’t change the situation that there is disparity. I’ve personally never been stopped by the police walking or driving (except for a speeding ticket), never been searched (except by the TSA), and never worried about what the police are thinking of me. I cannot imagine any person of color being able to say the same thing.

There is also still very overt racism in play today. I’ve had personal experience of this. I’ve seen people excluded from getting jobs because of their skin color. One terrible boss I once had, had the team I worked in interview a person for a job as the final stage in a hiring process. All other interviews had taken place via the phone and the final interview took place in person. The candidate was ideal, great skills; excellent attitude and we all agreed this was the one. But this boss said no, his words “didn’t you see him, he was (in a whisper) black”. We were all disgusted at this, even reporting this weak human being to the human resources department of the company we worked for. But nothing changed, the great candidate didn’t get the job, the nasty boss wasn’t even reprimanded. Was this because they didn’t want to create a problem, or had the companies “quota” already been met? I don’t know. But it showed me just how broken the world can be. However rare this example may be, it still exists. I personally think it’s prolific, but I have no scientifically valid research to prove this.

Life can be hard for everyone, but if you live with the additional burdens of relatives who have been beaten down a million tiny different ways, and of people who actively dislike you or discriminate against you for how you look, then the deck is stacked against you.

It’s easy to question peoples ability based on overt differences such as accent, skin color, gender, height or weight, we all do it all the time, either consciously or subconsciously. And covert differences such as religion and club memberships play their part. It doesn’t make it acceptable.

I believe we are not even close to a place where the playing field is level.

But I suspect this won’t stop the current make up of the supreme court of the United States deciding that affirmative action has run it’s course.



An exercise in honest thinking

When I was a child I accepted what I was told without proof. From a very early age I was content to hear the stories of Santa Claus bringing presents, and the tooth fairy replacing a fallen tooth with money. I cannot really say I believed in the existence of these mythical creatures, but instead didn’t have the mental fortitude to question the idea that I was being given nice things in exchange for silly concepts.

From my very first memory of these myths I can honestly say that I knew it was my parents who participated in the adventure, and saw these fairies as a necessary part of the process. They (my parents) talked about themselves in these third person guises and I never saw a reason to not go along with the analogy.

When it came to the idea of religion and God, again I always saw these stories as a necessary mechanism to teach me things. I read the bible (children’s version) with large print and color images at a very early age. In fact I remember asking my parents if I could read the bible, and they bought me the children’s version. I loved the stories, they were well above the level that I could read anywhere else, were both scary and exciting. But I never saw them as more than stories. They clearly were not true. Now I was maybe five or six when I first came to that conclusion, but I saw absolutely no reason to discuss their truthfulness with anyone. These were great exciting stories, and just like any other story it never occurred to me at that age that anyone would think they were literally true.

I still love the power of the biblical stories, and I really do find a lot to learn from the rituals and ideas of religion and myth alike. The only thing that really separates religion and myth for me, is now knowing that some people actually believe that the religious stories are entirely true while myth is known by everyone to be just stories.

It took me until my teenage years to be able to truly articulate to myself a logical discussion that proved the non-existence of God. Before then I knew that God was just a story like all others but I couldn’t explain why.

Here’s what I discovered:

For God to be a fact, several things must be true.

1. God must listen to prayers
2. God must act to improve the universe

Well there are thousands of mutually exclusive versions of God that are prayed to right now on earth. Assuming that god listens to prayers and acts to improve the universe, then surely all but the true believers lives would be in the shitter. Clearly this is not the case, so God doesn’t listen or answer prayers. And thus is not a factor in our lives.

The laws of the universe do not require a God of any description to be active. Who knows what happened before the big bang. Frankly it makes no sense to assume some bloke with a white beard decided to squirt out everything from nothing and then had absolutely no interaction since then.

It makes much more sense to assume that there is no God, and that existence is the beautiful thing we see around us that has been growing by the mathematical principle of entropy and the logical extension of this, evolution.

Thinking this way means that I treasure every experience I have while these trillions of atoms that were forged in the center of stars hold together in my physical form and create the sentience that is I. I know my time as this sentience is limited and that I need to spend every moment experiencing. This leads me to want to do as much good as I can, smile as much as I can, work as hard as I can, think as deeply as I can, and experience all that I can.

Knowing what I know, makes me want to be honest, ethical and as good a person as I can.

I know time is just a concept that I have been taught and has no true meaning, but I don’t know enough to deal with the universe I see without this concept.

Knowing these things helps me deal with the idea of loved ones who I will never see again.

I cannot explain love, but I can explain hate. I know enough not to hate, and I know enough to treasure love wherever and whenever it can be found.

I know consciously and empirically that there is no God, and this knowledge means I have no excuses. There is no excuse to lie, cheat, kill, steal, hurt or abuse. There is nothing to forgive me, I need to be as good as I can simply because when this life is over there is no second chance. All that comes after of me is the good things I leave in this universe.

I plan to enjoy every moment of my sentience, to bring joy to me, my family, friends and beyond.

Being honest and accepting the simple facts shouldn’t need to have a name, it should be every sentient beings standard state. I don’t believe in anything that I can’t know to be true, so why take one of an infinite number of absurd ideas and put it on a pedestal (the idea of a god).

I can enjoy the warmth of custom, and learn from the stories of many generations without needing to blindly follow things that cause both harm to others and limit thought.

I suspect, this is why Atheists generally don’t start wars, they see the longer game.