Every time I hear of an LBGT hero I just get angry. There should be absolutely nothing heroic required for someone to live their lives in-line with who they are. The simple fact is that bigoted, sexist people who are just low in mental fortitude are scared of anyone who is unlike themselves and create reasons for people to have to perform unreasonable levels of activity to overcome unreasonable barriers to be able to live their lives as their biology and their personality defines it.
I know people of many potential variants (as does everyone), some are gay, some are straight, and some I have no idea. Some are great people and some are assholes, and some (most) are somewhere in-between. When I see a person, I see, a person, and frankly it doesn’t matter what they wear, who they marry or who they hold hands with.
When I hear of a sports star who “heroically” came out to their team mates, or had their nuts chopped off and was featured on the cover of a magazine in a bathing suit, I’m not thinking “hero”, I’m thinking “what the fu@k”, it’s some person living their lives as they see fit, just like everyone else, stop making such a lot of fuss about it.
Let’s just accept that every person is different from every other person, and stop worry about it.