How about choosing any one or more of these :
Do whatever you can to make people that you are not related to, Happy.
Enjoy giving more than getting.
Be totally honest in everything you do.
Show respect to everyone.
Understand that the other guy’s point of view is not stupid, but has a basis in his desires.
Be a person you can respect
Smile more than ever before.
Be a person that no one at all thinks is an asshole.